I do keep an eye on my kids' myspace pages and their friends. The most concerning thing I see is the girls' pages where they like to come off as slutty as possible, although they don't seem that way in real life. None of them really have identifying data where you could track them down if you didn't know them, however.What I think is creepy is some of the people that my kids have played XBox Live with. They are talking to them online with a microphone and I can hear what they are saying. Some of them are just bizarre characters although most of them are just regular gamers. |
Posted by: liz 1/8/2007 2:49:14 AM
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Liz, you're absolutely right about XBox Live. I'm not a user myself, but know friends and family who play on Microsoft's online service. They've communicated similar things to me regarding the use of obsenities and racially charged language.In a lot of ways, Xbox Live's service represents one of the few "public" interaction spaces that has yet to receive broad media attention, and this means it is, for better or worse, virtually unmonitored and unregulated. If I understand correctly, it is possible to report particularly abusive or unruly users to Microsoft who can then suspend their accounts, but by and large, much of the raucus behavior is tacitly let go. It's also my guess that any regulation that would be proposed by Microsoft's game's division would be met with fierce opposition by users who are very loyal. Your comment shows that you are engaged with and aware of your child's use of this service, which is probably more than can be said of most parents. Open discussion about what your children encounter on XBox Live, as with anywhere else, can only be a positive thing. And if you do hear or see something that broaches a line you would rather not see crossed, I would suggest you contact Microsoft and make sure your voice is heard. |
Posted by: TheEditorInChief 1/9/2007 10:23:59 AM
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The good thing about XBox Live is that you can block the problem people and not have to deal with them any more. There definitely is way more profanity than I would like to hear, but my boys (15 and 17) are old enough that I'm not going to keep them from playing. Most of the games they play are with actual real life friends, and there's plenty of profanity that goes on in that group too. I have to say that my kids get a kick out of goading some of these people into getting angry and then blocking them. The funny thing is that they are mild-mannered and well-behaved children who would never behave like if they weren't anonymously online so plenty of blame rests with them. |
Posted by: liz 1/9/2007 1:37:44 AM
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